Are you judgmental? You know most people don't like to own up to the
fact that they are judgmental. They either make excuses for it, "the bible
says. . ." Or try to justify it by saying it's necessary to discern to what
they're being exposed. Let's see, how can I put this clearly?
Judgment KILLS!
Most of us are caught up in this idea that all the extrinsic stuff
matters. So we evaluate people on "stuff:" The problem is
that we get deluded into thinking that the "stuff" some how
matters. I guess in this capitalistic society we put worth in things not
in people. Things like possessions, degrees, positions, you get the
point. Things begin to own us rather than our owning them because we
project so much of our self definition into them.
Now this is getting off
into a different area, I'll deal with materialism another day. You get the
idea we judge not that all life has value but that there is a hierarchy of value
based solely upon things that are temporal.
Our judgments don't hurt the people we judge against,
they hurt they one that judges. Judging keeps you trapped in the physical
and block your own growth. You will not recognize that you and your
brother are one if you are judging him, you won't recognize him as your brother
either.
Judgment is one of the biggest games that the ego has
going. It keeps you stuck in your separateness. It puts you in the
position of the "all knowing" because you assign values and get to
determine what has worth and what does not.
People who feel worthless are usually the ones who
judge. If they knew that they had an inherent value then they would look
on everyone else as having value as well. There would be no need to judge
them because all is one. If you are judgmental check yourself, it is not
hard to recognize the divinity in you is in all of life. Its just God
experiencing God.
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